I’ve been with patients all my life,” says Susan Bauer-Wu, Tussi and John Kluge Endowed Professor in Contemplative End of Life Care Professorship in Nursing. “Patients are not a special class of people. They’re us. When we become patients, we are experiencing greater pain and greater limitation. We may need to be confined. We lose sleep. Perhaps we can’t eat or walk or talk in the same way. How we respond defines the difference between pain and suffering. Pain is an unpleasant signal. Suffering is how you relate to that signal. It’s the meaning or story you create in your mind in response to it.”


Susan Bauer-Wu has indeed been with patients all her life. Her mother was a nurse at New York’s Central Islip State Hospital, a sprawling psychiatric facility on Long Island. Bauer-Wu sometimes even went to work with her mother and shadowed her. She went on to study nursing herself and during her sophomore year in college, when her mother was diagnosed with advanced stage breast cancer, she went home to take care of her.


From the start, Bauer-Wu’s interest has always been in the patient as much as the illness. Her doctoral study focused on the emerging field of mind-body medicine, primarily because her work with cancer patients impressed on her that the clinical treatments alone did not completely explain how well patients fared with their illness. “I always want to know the whole story,” she says, whether visiting with patients in their homes, staying with them in the hospital during lengthy courses of cancer treatment, or teaching them how to use mindfulness to deal more effectively with the limitations caused by illness.


Today, Bauer-Wu, author of Leaves Falling Gently: Living Fully With Serious and Life-Limiting Illness through Mindfulness, Compassion, and Connectedness (New Harbinger, 2011), is one of the foremost clinical researchers looking into the effects of chronic stress on patients with debilitating and life-limiting illness and how mindfulness and compassion practices can help such patients. In addition, she studies how caregivers – both professional caregivers and family members – can more effectively serve their patients or loved ones while maintaining their own equilibrium.


Bauer-Wu’s main prescription for working with pain and limitation is to “tune in to your body” and what’s going on with it rather than turn away from it. She says, though, that it’s important to develop sensitivity to the difference between chronic and acute pain. Chronic symptoms are unpleasant sensations or bodily experiences that linger for weeks, months, or years. Acute symptoms are physical sensations that come on quickly or increase sharply and reach the height of our pain tolerance. “These,” Bauer-Wu says, “are neither to be tolerated or ignored. They are critical messages that require action,” such as seeking immediate medical attention. By contrast, chronic pain and irritation are the very stuff that mindful awareness can most readily ameliorate, thereby changing the whole way we view being ill or in pain.


“Our most common reaction to pain is to resist it, so when someone tells you to turn toward your pain it seems counterintuitive, almost like punishing yourself,” she says. In fact, Bauer-Wu notes that many of the mind-body programs for cancer patients reinforce this basic tendency by using guided imagery “to take you to the mountains, to the ocean, to a tropical island in your mind.”


The cornerstone of the mindfulness approach to illness is that you need to learn how to accept where you are, and then you can notice the sensations and respond appropriately. “If your pain really is acute and reaches a seven or eight out of ten, then guided imagery or other methods of dealing with such intensity may be appropriate,” she says. “When you know that the pain is not at that kind of acuity, you have the power to investigate it with mindful awareness.”


The first step, says Bauer-Wu, is to be aware of sensations as just sensations. So often we have a single solid label for our pain and we interpret what it means. We can begin to construct storylines of worst-case scenarios or self-loathing. “However,” Bauer-Wu writes in Leaves Falling Gently, “if you step back and curiously observe what your body is feeling, you realize that pain is not just one big overwhelming thing, but rather a constellation of many subtle bodily sensations, such as dullness, sharpness, aching, or throbbing, that likely change from moment to moment.” Noticing the nuanced qualities and fluctuations of sensations gives them less power over you.


“If you have pain in the lower back,” Bauer-Wu asks, “what are its qualities? Is it throbbing, burning, and piercing? Is it constant?” You can direct your attention to different parts of your body and experience the sensations in each one. “This gives you a richer sense of your whole body,” she says, and you begin to realize that you are not your pain.


Of course, illness, hospitalization and facing the possibility of death can bring on overwhelming emotions. Just as with bodily sensations, patients are encouraged (as are caregivers) not to turn away and resist, but rather to become familiar with what they’re experiencing by observing it. Whether they’re experiencing fear, sadness, anger, or unhelpful thoughts like dwelling on the past or regretting that the future will not turn out as they’d like, patients can let it pass without judgment. But if need be, powerful thoughts can be redirected. Intense fear or anger can be hard to look at, and at such moments simply gazing out the window at the sky may bring some calm. Eventually, the upheaval will subside.


Since patients confined to hospital rooms or bedridden at home often become restless and irritable, Bauer-Wu encourages them to use everything in their environment as an object of mindful attention.


For example, she says, you can scan the vast soundscape that surrounds you and use the aural equivalent of a flashlight to land your attention on a sound, such as wind rustling or rain falling. Rather than being annoyed by the sounds around you, by tuning in you can choose how you engage with them. Likewise, rather than seeing everyday activities such as bathing and brushing your teeth as drudgery, you can allow these activities to ground you in present-moment awareness. “You don’t need to do anything special,” she says, “or go anywhere exotic.”


Compassion and connection fill out the picture in Bauer-Wu’s methodology for changing the way patients experience their condition. Tuning in and not turning away from pain grounds you in the present moment.It is compassion that enables you to rediscover “your innate goodness” and the warmth of your heart. It enables you to communicate and connect with others, and counteract the isolation and self-involvement that turns a painful condition into repeated suffering. In fact, Bauer-Wu says, “Compassion is a part of mindfulness itself right from the beginning. Mindfulness is the kindest thing you can do for yourself and others.”


If you are in the position of experiencing on-going pain of one kind or another, why not try using the kind and compassionate attention of the mind to develop the acceptance that Susan Bauer-Wu refers to. Listen to this short recording, as it offers an introduction to the kind of acceptance needed to achieve peace and equilibrium.


Alternative Visualizations

Although Bauer-Wu talks about moving towards, instead of running from, your sensations of pain, a combination of the mindfulness technique she describes and creative visualisation which seeks to transform pain, to move it or release it, may be the best way forward for some people.

First, learn how to relax:

• Put yourself in a relaxed, reclining position, perhaps in a darkened room. Either shut your eyes or focus on a single point.
• Then slow down your breathing, breathing to the count of 4 in, and to the count of 5 out. Make sure you fully inhale and fully exhale.
• After you feel yourself relaxing, you can begin to use any of the imagery techniques described below.


Altered focus

This powerful technique involves focusing your attention on any specific ‘non-painful’ part of the body and then altering the sensation you are experiencing in that part of the body. For example, you could imagine your hand (or the area you’ve chosen) warming up. This will take the mind away from focusing on the source of your pain and brings great relief.


Mental anesthesia

This technique, also very powerful, is imagining an injection of numbing anesthetic (like the novocaine a dentist uses) into your area of pain. By imagining this numbness, research has shown that the areas of the brain where pain is registered show a marked reduction in pain intensity. Alternatively, you may wish to imagine a soothing and cooling ice pack being placed onto the area of pain, which is equally effective.


Mental analgesia

Building on the mental anesthesia concept, this technique involves imagining drawing on nature’s pharmacy. For example, you could imagine an injection of a strong painkiller – morphine-like – into the painful area. Or you can focus on imagining your brain producing massive amounts of endorphins, your body’s natural pain-relieving hormones, and ‘see’ them flooding into to the painful parts of your body.



Transfer is where you take the good energy/feeling from one part of the body and use it as an instrument for healing. For example, you can use your mind to produce altered sensations – such as generating heat, cold, or anaesthesia – in a non-painful hand, and place the hand on the painful area. Visualise transferring this pleasant, altered sensation/energy into the painful area. If your hands are where the pain resides, then see a third imaginary hand playing that role. This is equally effective.


Pain movement

Mentally move your pain from one area of your body to another where you think the pain will be easier for you to handle. If you can’t take another minute of your leg pain, for example, mentally move the pain up from your leg to another area of your body that you consider more resilient. Alternatively, you can move your pain outside of your body and see it suspended in the air. This can bring great relief too.

These techniques are not for everyone and some may appeal more than others. What they all have in common is that they take practice to become effective for managing chronic pain. Work on pain coping strategies for about 30 minutes 3 times per week. With practice, you will find that your power over the pain will increase, and it will take less mental energy to achieve more pain relief. You may also consider asking a mental health professional for help.


Further reflections

Sadly so many of us live with no awareness of how to be aligned to nature, and insufficient knowledge about how to meet the needs of the body so that it can do what it knows how to do, which is to keep us well. As a consequence we are experiencing more and more ‘new’ conditions, autoimmune diseases and undefined pain, which the medics have few answers to.

Therefore it makes sense that we should try and do all that we can to give the body the conditions it needs to right our imbalances. This involves a nutritious and varied diet, adequate sleep, sufficient exercise/movement where possible, hydration and using the mind to remove blocks to our wellbeing.

Do you want to work with your body and with nature? Why not evaluate your lifestyle and do what you can to create health on every level?